Friday, April 20, 2012

Week 11 - The Discomforting Sound of Silence


                I figured going into this project that these last two weeks or so of the school year would be pretty lame-duck; that is, fewer people would call me back because the school year is winding down anyway. Hopefully I’m wrong, but if the two notecards I handed out this week are any tell, I would say it was an accurate prediction.
                I did the regular handout this week; one to a male, one to a female. The female gave the standard “Smile, nod, thanks” that seems to be so popular a response to this project. The male really made me uncomfortable by not saying anything, not even a thank you, not even a goodbye. He didn’t even have to scowl, or frown, or show any negative body language at all—just by saying absolutely nothing, the guy made me feel really stupid. This is really weird in any context, if you think about it; nothing makes me squirm more than when someone doesn’t talk when I expect them to do so. I suppose I shouldn’t be complaining about people thanking me when there are apparently some people that won’t even open their mouth when I give them a notecard.
                On the bright side, I was outside on Thursday morning when I was approached by the guy I gave a notecard last week. He came up to me and said, “Uh, I seem to have misplaced your phone number… Do you mind if I could get it again?” So of course I gave him my number, which is a good sign as far as his calling me back, but he still hasn’t called. I suppose there is always this weekend, but I’m not exactly anticipating him calling me back.
                So what do you think, reader? Does the end of the school year give an incentive to call back because of the “I’ve got nothing to lose” factor, or does it hinder the desire to call back because of the “We’re almost done, I don’t give a hoot” factor?

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